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Friday, 30 October 2009

  • Daddy's little girl

    D(Dad): Where your sis go?
    Me: She went dinner with X
    D:Why he always with her? Everytime call also said with X
    Me: Dad, don't think too much. Nothing between them.
    D: Eih get too close also can have feelings
    Me:Look, v knew this guy for 6-7 yrs, anything happen could have happen long ago.
    D:What does he do?
    Me: Accountancy
    D:Oii seh..why you didn't go after him?
    Me: *almost speechless and irritated* Daddy, he's taste very different k. definitely not me n jesilin.
    D: Aishh..he good ma, got qualification some more.
    Me: Why you always looking at people's status?! you thought any engineer, doctor, lawyer can be married with?
    D:No, must get someone like this la
    Me: *sarcastically* Ok, how about a highly honourable 60 yr old professor??
    D: *laughing away*

    That's my dad. I admire him the fact that he worked hard to be at the managerial level in his company. He started of as a van salesman. A taiping boy came to KL with less than 100 bucks in his pocket, to find for a job. When he married my mom, practically he had nothing much either. I guess i understood how he could think that way.

    Wonder would he gets hot-tempered, heart-attack if i could have married a pastor, missionary, church worker.. sigh Some of the big decision in my life after 20 yrs old, i had went against my parents will ;P

Friday, 23 October 2009

  • Success

    This was an article i wrote it down from elsewhere back in 2005.

    1. I am successful when i have been faithful to the things that God has called me to do.

    "His master replied, 'well done, good and faithful servant!" Matthew 25:23

    2. I am successful when i have been a good steward of my life.

    "Each of you should use whatever gifts you have received to serve others, as faithful stewards of God's grace in it's various forms." 1 Peter 4:10

    I can be a good steward of my failures too. To be a good steward of my life includes actively seeking to realize my full potential so that i can honour God with my life and grow in my capacity to bless others. There is the constant awareness that life is a gift and i have to give an account one day.

    4. I am successful when i used the 'twin loves' as the basic compass of my life.
    "Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all you mind and with all your strength. Love your neighbour as yourself." Mark 12:30,31

    It's about giving ourselves, to love God and to love others.

    God has made us in such a way that we are successful, when we love God and our fellow men. But for now, we can say that God defines success in terms of faithfulness, stewardship and love.

    I believe that the whole debate concerning the real nature of success is right there at the front line of the battle to not to be conformed to this world.

    Chasing success as defined by the world means most of us are running on empty and that few of us will actually succeed.

    Living our lives to "succeed" as God defines it means we can all be winners, and touch the world with God at the same time. -end-


    I want to ask the Lord to renew my passion in counselling work. Moneraty returns i have long realised it will not be my direction in life. 7 yrs ago, i asked one question that determines my pathway today. "Is my life gonna be like this? I study form 6, then uni, then work, then married, hav kids, get old, and die? IS THAT ALL? Could there be something more than this? Could i do something greater than this? But WHAT and HOW? "

    The questions are all answered today, by His grace i knew i'm not walking alone. The more i think of this 7 yrs ago, and in the process of these 7 yrs, the more i am fearful of Him who entrusted me with all the gifts i have, the people He entrusted to me. I just wana keep walking and running till i finish the race, and hear Him say:" Well done, good and faithful servant!"

Saturday, 03 October 2009

  • Link

    It's amazing how people can be linking to each other...

    Not by coincidence i always believe that.

    see if i could link this facebook...what could happen?

    how could i get connected even though there are times i just feel that the 2 worlds doesn't seem to cross with each other...

     

     

Friday, 02 October 2009

  • Dim Sum Delight

    People, i just found out that Old Klang Road has good dim sum, to my surprise. It was something like what i had in Penang. Sorry to say i don't have any good feelings for dim sum at expensive restaurant (though they taste good). I like those with simple kind of kopitiam, or even just roadside stalls (but must have more variety la), under the tree or something.. 

    i finally knew why i like it THAT much. Whenever it's dim sum time, it's family time.  I'll see chinese families, young and old sitting together with dim sum on the table plus the hot chinese tea. Actually daddy has been pretty fed-up with dim sum already (coz he had too much with his dealers!!). But i guess, that's how morning breakfast can be make fun with family and friends.

    It's the people you go with. Time for fellowship, spending time eating and talking together, in the early morning.

    So i said, dim sum cannot be nice if eating alone.

     

Saturday, 29 August 2009

  • Never seen such a touching cartoon for a long time!

    Here I am in Bkt Mertajam, at my parents' place, hehehe! Me n sis are well-fed here, yum yum~~~ Tomoro will head towards Taiping for the merdeka weekend.

    Have watched UP with colleagues. TRUST me, that UP was really really really GOOD!! i guess different people would see different things in this cartoon animation.

    Maybe because of my profession, i always search for the emotional, sentimental values in the cartoon, apart from the great adventures. I think it's more than adventures, achieving unachieving dreams, fulfilling unfulfilled wishes, reaching out to unexplored dreams. It's also about grief, loneliness, letting go (which was why i felt so heavy-hearted after the show). It was a tear-jerker kind of cartoon, i would say it got my eyes filled with tears at 3 different parts of the cartoon. For those who haven't watch, i am sorry that i just have to reflect on it here now. heehee, spoiler huh!

    i agreed with a colleague who said that there was never a cartoon that would expressed so quietly (just using music, no words spoken) as the scenes changed from Mr. Fredrickson went through marriage, old age, death of his beloved wife Ellie. I told my colleague at the scene when his wife on her death bed that i was going to cry!

    The 2nd tear-jerking part would be when Mr. Friedrickson finally settled his house beside Paradise Falls. As he sat there, with a relieve sigh, he reflect on Ellie's adventure book. This part was just Soooooooooooo touching as he turned the pages. For all that he felt guilty and regret that he couldn't have his wife's childhood dreams fulfilled, he finally realised the true fact was the wife's adventure was her marriage with a man that she loves. Look at his expressions!!! really break my heart there... i could even feel the tears coming out again as i type this. And the last part - Ellie thank Fredrickson for the adventure, and had asked him to find his' adventure. Wuaaaaa... this point, my colleague beside had heard my nose making noises already.

    As he saw his air-balloon house missing in the clouds, that expression on his face again break my heart. It is just very hard to let go...in real life, it is a real issue in many of us. Letting go is just so hard to do. However, if we do not let go, we would never have a breakthrough, breakfree - from bondages, from past hurts, the wound will not heal. New life does not come about, unless the old life died. It really speaks very true of the relationship with our Saviour... Gee...can this cartoon be an evagelical tool to help us reach out to the unsaved?

    There the house, settled at its rightful place finally, the dream started by a little girl, ended by an old aged man with his new found dreams and adventure.

    The 3rd tearing part, was the part when Mr. Fredrickson gave his acknowledgement to Russell boy. Aww man, so touched by it. I could see that so many young kids suffered deprivation of having good father/mother figures. The presence of a male/female figure in a child's life is so important. And this old man would eventually represent a significant male figure in this little boy's heart, same for little girls finding the identification of female figures. SO there would not be so many cases of homosexuality and lesbianism among us could have happened (one of the few contributing factors).  

    =) worth a watch people! BOTH THUMBS UP!

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